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Questions vs Statements: How to stop being the interrogator in a conversation?

Have you ever had the feeling of being an interrogator/interviewer rather than being a part of the conversation? Asking questions is unavoidable to get the conversation rolling but once it is rolling, you should make them very few and as distant as possible. But today I will teach you a powerful technique of conversation which will not only make your conversation more interesting but also more friendly, unlike the ones where you sound like an interviewer. The Approach: When you see friends talking, you know they talk in statements than questions. The main idea here is to talk in statements rather than questions. Questions are a way of asking people information, but statements are a way of giving information, having deep conversations and building relations. The technique that I will talk about today is called the “ Cold Reading Technique ” where you make a statement about the person pretending that you intuitively know it without actually knowing it. What we do here is that rather